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Plans

Begin free. Continue when it feels worth it.

You shouldn't have to pay before you understand what this is. Start with the self-discovery starter assessment, and upgrade only if the reflection is doing something for you. Paid plans include a 7-day free trial and can be cancelled any time.

Free

Start understanding yourself before you decide anything.

$0

  • Self-discovery starter assessment
  • First 2 journey modules
  • 1 AI reflection
  • Basic Relationship Snapshot
  • Up to 3 dating journal entries
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Personal

The full guided journey, at your own pace.

$12/ month

  • All journey modules
  • Unlimited dating journal entries
  • AI reflections
  • Complete Relationship Blueprint
  • Progress history
  • PDF export
Start Personal

7 days free, then $12/month

Premium

For when you're actively dating and want deeper clarity.

$24/ month

  • Everything in Personal
  • Advanced AI reflection
  • Monthly relationship-pattern summary
  • Dating comparison tools
  • Personalised questions to ask
  • Conversation preparation
  • Relationship Blueprint updates
Start Premium

7 days free, then $24/month

Couples

For two people who want to understand each other, not just themselves.

$39/ month

  • Everything in Premium, for both of you
  • Shared modules you each answer and both can read
  • A joint Relationship Blueprint
  • A shared couple journal
  • A couples-only AI reflection space
  • One subscription covers both partners
Start Couples

7 days free, then $39/month

Before You Choose Him is designed for personal reflection and educational purposes. It is not therapy, mental-health treatment, medical advice, or professional relationship counseling.